Basically weddings in East Lombok are the same as other
parts of Lombok. Marriage preceded by the abduction of a bride by groom. Of
course, with the agreement and approval of a bride itself. Married in Sasak tribe are called “ Mararik “.Who had been abducted, a
bride stay for several days in the home or family of his bride man. Here is the
procedure of marriage:
Merangkat
Merangkat is a dinner for both of couple as the beginning of a marriage
process in shashak tribe. This event performed on the first night prospective
brides woman comes in gubug or Prospective
brides men village. Prospective brides eat together accompanied by one person of
old woman or one of the family near of grooms ( erst called inaq umbaq ). Said merangkat
because food is served uses a single receptacle containing that contains one
free-range chicken eggs, a dish of rice, a tail complete with grill roasted
chicken with spice.
Mesejati
Sejati is true or
truth. Sejati is a process of
information addressed to the village government ( village of origin prospective
brides woman ) to tell the village chief ( pengamong krame ) later on continued
the information head of hamlet or keliang ( pengemban krame / figure customary
).
Information content Sejati that spoken by chief village is:
“ There are one of the villagers is named … son/daughter … from village …, that
(villagers/prospective bride women) have left this village three days ago with
the intention of marrying with the residents of the village ….”.
Selabar
Notify to prospective bride woman who followed by the
habitual and tradition including talks ' Aji Krama ( price customary ) '
consisting of value 33-66-100 with a base judgment money ' kepeng tepong ( coins of
ancient perforated ) ' or ' kepeng jamaq (modern money) ', even sometimes this selabar is plus with the demand for caregivers, too.
Nuntut Wali atau Get
hymeneal guardian
Take the bride guardian,
can be directly performed when selabar
or days after selabar. It all depends
on agreement of both parties. ' Wali ' this means a witness of marriage from
women family.
Rebaq
Pucuk or Bait Janji
It means asking the propriety or reasonableness to be
charged. This process is a form of process to take the results of the
deliberation of the bride's family financial circumstances. This can be carried
out any time , After the bride and groom are ready, it has a special because
talk about financially. Rebaq Pucuk, Bait Janji, nunas panutan is held by the bride boy who has ready responsible
for the signing of the decision.
Sedawuh
Sedawuh comes from the word Dawuh which means
command. Sedawuh done 7 days prior to
the event. Sedawuh-process is implemented by the groom's Party by sending 1 or
2 people to inform about the development or readiness to undergo custom
event/custom work and most major thing spoken of is about the Ordinance today
(H) that the event day/gawe, custom
emblem of aji krame or rule out of aji krame and penyongkolan system and
finally third item of custom event has not changed.
Sorong Serah
Sorong it means a motivation
and serah means handover. So sorong serah it means an impulse to the
parents of a bride to handover or release their son to live in settling down, so
that both the bride not attached to their parents anymore. In this the process
is readily apparent that the process of the handover of responsibility both
parents. This process is the top trial customary marriage to a tribe of
shashak, because at this process must be attended by elders, the penglingsir,
the village chief from both of bride. the process of hearing customary was
highlighted that the two bride declared valid be conjugal and watched by all
the guests.
Usually done after or a few days after the wedding ceremony,
or even on the same day, the men accompanied the bride's family came to visit
the family of the woman who accompanied by relatives and extended family,
neighbors and friends of the bride with the use of traditional attire or Gendang
Beleq(The Big Drums). “ In the long line of procession, which is so
crowded and resembles a Carnival.
Bales Lampak Nae
This is a tradition at the end of the marriage ceremony the
Sasak in Lombok. the parents of the groom will visited house of woman families a
day after nyongkolan with to improve hospitality between both families.
That's how the stages of marriage customs in sasak culture. If
there are errors please correction.
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